"real loss is only possible when you love something more than you love yourself" : good Will Hunting

"the family is the antithesis of the self. The family is the void from which you came, and also the place to which you return when you die" : the ice storm

"what is more obscene? sex or war?" : the people vs Larry Flint

"we do not need bells in our church to worship god" : breaking the waves

"you filthy little rascal, when are you going to grow up?" : kolya

"this kind of certainity comes but once in a lifetime" : the bridges of Madison county